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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jan 223 min read
Stay away, weekend, you dreadful beast!
I enjoy the loneliness and appreciate the option of using my school's sports facilities for exercise after work. The sweat drips as I...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Sep 17, 20241 min read
When life seems too dark, get yourself a flashlight
We can't always choose what life throws at us, but we can always choose how to react to it. Be proactive and control your thoughts before...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Sep 10, 20242 min read
Pleasing the Person in the Mirror
At the moment, I have a side job as a German teacher at a private language school in Dubai. Today was the last day of one of the courses,...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jul 25, 20241 min read
Do you shape your job? Or does your job shape you?
I often found myself trapped in situations where I couldn't live up to my own professional standards. It drained me and underminded my...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jul 25, 20241 min read
Be the Pilot of your own life
Since I decided to move to Dubai I have often been asked why I made that decision. In short, I looked for the biggest possible change in...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jul 18, 20241 min read
Why it is healthy not to aspire to be the best
We like to blame social media for making us feel bad. However, nobody forces us to constantly compare ourselves to the rest of the world....
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jul 18, 20241 min read
Provoke me, friend, to make me stronger
Sometimes I get the impression that we fail in preparing our children for the hardships life has to offer. They will have to face...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jul 18, 20241 min read
Don't let the disturbance disturb you
When working with groups, we are often inclined to spend too much time and energy on those who don't want to fit in, neglecting the ones...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jul 3, 20244 min read
Explore the lion's den - And you might find humans after allÂ
Only if we realize that talking about someone and talking with someone are two completely different things, we will be able to truly...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jun 20, 20245 min read
If you can lead a child, you can lead an empire
We might not usually make the connection, but educating a toddler might teach us a lot about our leadership qualities We know that a...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Jun 3, 20244 min read
On justifying violence against children
Often, different opinions are just dismissed as cultural differences instead of considering individual well-being No matter your age,...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
May 7, 20244 min read
Starve the Trolls
We often feel the urge to defend ourselves when attacked and get manipulated in the process. Silence might speak louder than a thousand...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Apr 24, 20245 min read
Ethnocentrism? Yes, Please!
While it is right to be reluctant when judging other cultures, it seems coward and disingenious never to do so (This was part of my...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Apr 23, 20244 min read
Riding on a Camel to Oktoberfest
It often seems that people are driven by expectations and live clichés. In the process, they might be chasing someone else's dreams - and...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Apr 14, 20246 min read
Communication – Friend or Foe?
We all depend on it, and yet we often neglect it – How good communication can improve our lives Several years ago in a kindergarten in...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Apr 10, 20245 min read
On the value of frustration in early childhood education
Well-intended is not always well-executed – Why we should make life harder for our children sometimes In kindergarten, a four-year-old...
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Stephan Rinke-Mokay
Apr 2, 20243 min read
On Embracing Responsibility for One's Own Suffering
Some time ago, I came across an Instagram post that stated: "Most people will prefer a known hell over an unknown heaven." It took me a...
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